Nobody’s Perfect: Imperfection is Perfection

Have you ever thought, “I’m not enough, and life is too hard on me?” 

Maybe you’ve tried to be the perfect parent, friend, or worker. But it can be exhausting. 

First, it’s okay! You’re not alone in this. Many of us chase perfection, try to excel in everything, and believe it will make us happy. 

But here’s the thing: “Perfection is a myth!”

What if I tell you that being “imperfect” makes you unique? 

Let me put it this way, “A world where flaws are not flaws at all but something to be celebrated.” Sounds good, doesn’t it? 

You can also achieve this contentment; you just need to change your perspective.

Think of your favorite person. Are they perfect? Probably not. 

But you still love them because of their quirky nature or the way they laugh. It might also be their silly mistakes or how they always burn the toast. 

These so-called imperfections make them who they are, and you love them.

Perfection, if you think about it, is boring. 

The “vase” may be beautiful to look at, but the cracks in the vase make it “interesting,” and the scribbles outside the lines make art fun. Like that vase or drawing, you don’t need to be flawless to be worthy of love and happiness.

It’s Story Time

I recently came across a story, “You Bee You, and I’ll Bee Me,” by Annick Patry. It’s about a bee named Mason, born without wings. Mason couldn’t fly like the other bees. At first, he felt sad and wondered if he would ever be accepted by his bee colony. But then, he discovered something amazing: “He could climb!” 

Not only could he climb, but he became the best at it! 

Hence, he found a way to do things his way, which worked beautifully.

Mason didn’t need wings to be a great bee. He needed courage to see that he was already enough. 

Isn’t that what we all need?

Why am I stressing that being “Imperfect will make you brave and happy?”

Let me tell you, when you stop chasing perfection, something magical happens: ” You instantly become brave and bold.” 

People are drawn to honesty and realness, not perfection.

Did you notice that the best stories aren’t about people who have it all together but those who face challenges, make mistakes and keep going? 

How You Can Start Loving Your Imperfections

• Stop Comparing! 

Remember, everyone’s journey is different, as are their experiences, circumstances, and more. Don’t compare your beginning to someone else’s middle.

• Start Appreciating Yourself, You Did It

Did you make someone smile today? That’s a win. 

Did you try your best? Another win.

• “Be Kind,” first to Yourself, then to Others 

If you wouldn’t say something to a friend, don’t say it to yourself. Treat yourself with the same kindness you show others. 

• Lookout for the Things and People Who Strengthen You

Like Mason the bee, you have strengths you may not even know about. 

What are you good at? 

What brings you joy? 

Who appreciates and tries to correct you (in a good way)?

Focus on that.

One More Thing…

If you or someone you love needs to remember that being different is beautiful, read: “You Bee You, and I’ll Bee Me” by Annick Patry. 

It’s a sweet story about Mason, the wingless bee, perfect for teaching kids and adults that we’re all perfect just the way we are. Let’s stop chasing perfection and start enjoying life.

Grab your copy today.